What do women perceive with adult videos vs men and adult dvds?
Post date: 2009-02-22 13:19:06
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Women & Men and the perception of adult videos/dvds (aka Porn)
The first question asked -- do women watch adult movies?
Yes, many women do watch porn aka - adult videos and dvds. The interesting aspect is that they just don't watch nearly as often as men. Basically women are multi-task creatures and usually have other things on the agenda than spending hours of time surfing the internet for badly produced porn (adult dvd) clips. Additionally, women are auditorial and touch arousal rather than visually stimulated alone.
Every article I have read, clearly states that most adult movies are generated for the men, who generally care little about the plot or story line and just get aroused by seeing thrusting, sucking, and big tits. This is true, i have see a lot of adult dvds or videos to assess what Intimate Associates should carry vs what is available and limit our selection so that both men and women can enjoy what we offer.
1. There is a tremendous amount of badly done adult movies that leave me bored and non-sexually aroused due to really bad acting, bad sex, bad voice overs, bad scene cuts and completly unstimulating mentally.
2. The point of adult movies or porn - to arouse you sexually. Well most of these do arouse men, but as mentioned above multiple aspects generally leave a women uninterested and unaroused.
3. Lesbian porn or bisexual adult movies and dvds may be a bit more appealing to women than straight up gang bangs and porking with big boobed female stars on pool tables or on a motorcycle.
What arouses women is still the main question.
1. A story line. Something she can identify with somehow either via fantasy, identify with a main character or potentially image being in that situation.
Great examples of adult dvd's Intimate Associates offers are the Alexander Institute Educational Series. These are erotic, have a story line and provide an alternative to just bad porn. If your partner has ever fantasized about being a Vouyeur or Exhibtionist, just once, try "Little Kink" as a starter.
2. Quality video and clean scene cuts. The quality is important, since we are auditory creatures, bad voiceovers of someone cumming doesn't really do the trick. Find a real porn star, who is really cumming and the video and sound quality are there just like mainstream movies.
If you are going to pay for a movie, at least treat yourself to something of quality. Another wonderful example is our Christina Noire series by Wet Box Video. These are really done well for just straight up Interaracial porn. Although the do not offer an elaborate story line, the quality of the video and sound is there with no voice over bad cumming shots.
3. Show interest in your female partner, gently and erotically with the adult movie running in the background. Make her the center of attention guys.
We know you guys like the audio, but pick of a dvd that may have great music and very little talking involved. Something that isn't "dance party", but sensual and soft.
4. Do this together as a joint activity. Ask her opinion on choosing adult dvds or porn. If you have discussed any joint fantasies, pick up something of interest around that fantasy.
Another great example might be BDSM? Is she interested in potentially being your mistress for a night? Pick up something with class, quality video and mild? Perhaps a getting started video where you might be able to pick up a few things.
5. If she asks you if her breasts are as good as the porn stars in the adult video - you had better say "Your's are better!" Never compare your partner with those in the adult dvd. Make sure she knows that these movies are a poor substititute to intimacy with her and it is more fun watching them with her than without.
6. If you find your female partner aroused by a male actor, enjoy it --- just potential fantasy play. Men, please don't feel threatened by these actors, remember they are few in comparison and have to cum on command.
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