Flirting Open Gestures and Smiles

It must be said that most swingers are very forward with what they want, they are emotionally and sexually stable to allow forwardness once they meet with a couple. However, we are discussing flirting invitations with non-verbal communications, using eye contact and body language. This is where many in the lifestyle fail to recognize that a couple maybe interested in discussing further options.

Recognizing open body language and creating open body language to create open territory lines into which someone will be attracted to move. It means we should create the illusion of being a rewarding door at the end of a triangle-shaped corridor towards which people will automatically be drawn. We want people to feel that the door at the end of the corridor is inviting, tempting, exciting, maybe even a little dangerous, arousing and attractive. Simultaneously we can give out warmth and inviting vibes into which people wish to step.

Flirting Tips - When evading someone's personal space, enter with smiles, wide eyes, with intermittent eye contact if possible and approach in a casual non-threaten manner. Attempt to get to their level as soon as possible even before saying a word. If they are sitting then approach head on and then squat down to almost a submissive role to meet with them face to face. Avoid making him or her defensive or taking a defensive posture.

If you decide to invade someone's personal space you must override their fear or defensive responses by giving them a high dose of positive non-verbal messages on approach. You should move towards them slowly and gently, exchanging brief bursts of eye contact interspersed with lowered eyes, all the time punctuated with a symmetrical smile and small nodding and encouraging movement of the head every five seconds or so. Meanwhile, keep your hands open and expressive and your attitude light and easy rather than intense.