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Cunnilingus Tips
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Cunnilingus Tips
Post date: 2009-05-26
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Cunnilingus tips for great oral sex. Cunnilingus and most women find it very exciting. Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vagina with your mouth and tongue. It is a delicate oral sex skill, requiring patience, practice and dedication.
Cunnilingus Techniques Tips and Tricks
Performing cunnilingus is one of the most wonderful things that can be done for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and has the potential to give her an exceptional orgasm. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for those who require a large amount of clitoral stimulation, it is the easiest way to orgasm. Besides, lots of women expect it these days and men who perform great cunnilingus are always appreciated and considered fabulous lovers.
(1) Use your fingers to spread things apart (place arm around outside of (her) leg, hand coming down from her torso area, spread with 2 fingers)
(2) if your other hand isn't cold, touch her lightly elsewhere on her body while you're working away (legs, belly, underarm, etc., maybe hold her hand if that's what she likes)
(3) if the music isn't on too loud, moan and grunt to show you're enjoying yourself (don't pretend you're coming, just let her know you're enjoying yourself down there)
There is nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that you enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices during cunnilingus. At the same time, there is little less exciting to a woman than to think that you don’t like the taste and smell of her most intimate region. If your partner has a smell that is more than you can handle, or she doesn’t feel comfortable with you down there (thinking you won’t like the smell), suggest taking a nice hot shower or bath together. See the Bathing and Showering section for more details on how to make that bathroom experience a whole lot of fun for the both of you.
Lick her like an ice cream cone—big soft licks from stem to stern with a wide flat tongue stimulate all the nerves in her genital area. During cunnilingus go deliciously slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savored, or speed it up a bit and focus more on the clitoral area to push her towards orgasm.
Before reading further, you may want to get acquainted with this region of her body by reading the erogenous zones section and having a look at the diagrams.
Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that will feel bad (so long as you are gentle), so relax! Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area should feel great to your partner. Also, once you find something that works, don’t stray too far away from it unless you are moving to something that works better, or if you are teasing.
While performing cunnilingus start by kissing and gently licking a trail from her inner thighs all the way up to her outer lips. Lavish upon them for a few moments. This will heat her up in no time. As I said before, the labia often get overlooked, so when time and attention are spent on them, they are extremely sensitive. The slower you tease her, the better.
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Once you have lavished the outside of her lips, gently part them and
begin your gentle assault on the inner lips. Don't forget that your
mouth should not be the only thing moving throughout this whole
performance. Make good use of your hands by caressing her legs or, if
and I do mean if, your partner is into it, playing with her anus. I
cannot stress enough the importance of knowing whether or not she is
into having you play with her anus.
If you move to do so without her consent and she doesn't like it, you
will cause her to clam up like a shell. Your job has just become much,
much harder and there is a good chance that she will walk away from you
until you become much, much softer.
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 Suck her into your mouth. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the
licks and downward pressure of most cunnilingus. While you've got a
nice piece of her sucked in your mouth, lick it while maintaining the
suction. |
Oral Techniques and Tips
Cunnilingus The Lick
Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina along both sides. Repeating this technique going up and down and vice versa can be a great opener.
Cunnilingus Labial Hold
While holding the two parts together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.
Cunnilingus Tongue Intercourse
The majority of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Target them with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening. Techniques are pretty limited due to the length of your tongue, but try moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of her opening.
Cunnilingus Flick
Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clitoris. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This drives some women wild, and others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clit make sure to start out gently if you aren’t sure how she likes it. When you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.
The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e., very wet). These are more intense techniques, and may be too intense for some women, even when nearing orgasm.
Cunnilingus Clitoris Suck
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like tormenting her – but don’t overdo it! We recommend not using your teeth nor using heavy suction when starting out.
Cunnilingus Notes:
*Tease her by loving the clitoris and then pulling away and loving other areas and then going back to the clitoris again.
*Lick from the vagina entrance in a straight line up to the clitoris and back down again repeatedly. You may feel a slight ridge along this line. This area is very sensitive like the clitoris and can be very enjoyable. Stimulating this area with your finger while licking her clitoris can enhance her orgasm
*Contrary to popular belief most of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina reside in the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Build arousal by moving your tongue in and out or around in circles at the entrance. Make love to her with your tongue or be a wild and hungry animal and devour her ravenously.
*Insert a finger or fingers inside the vagina while licking the clitoris.
*Use a vibrator on her while simultaneously licking and probing with the tongue and lips.
*Women enjoy having oral as a surprise also. Give it to her unexpectedly with unbridled passion.
Cunnilingus The Clitoris Hold
Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.
Cunnilingus The Tongue Tube
Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it). This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth; in effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive orgasm.
Cunnilingus ABC’s
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on her genitals. This works surprisingly well as your tongue is always moving in different directions. Learn her favorite letters and the orders that work the best!
A good lover’s hands never stop moving, so keep exploring, insert a finger, or massage her thighs while you perform.
You can also try using a wide variety of flavored gels, oils, and lubricants. Some of these products heat up when rubbed or blown to add extra stimulation.
Having a mint in your mouth while you are performing cunnilingus can also improve your results. The mint, as long as it is not too weak or strong, can create a very intense tingling sensation to enhance your performance.
1. ABCs. Place your tongue either on the left or right hand side of her clitoris. Move your tongue and spell out the letters. You can also spell out other words such as "You Are Amazing", or her name etc.
2. Circles. This technique is pretty self-explanatory. Start by placing your tongue either of the left or right hand side of her clitoris. Move your tongue in a clockwise or anti-clockwise direction around her clitoris only. This technique will feel excellent when she is fairly aroused.
3. Sweeping. This is a fairly simple move. Position your tongue on either the left or right hand side of her clitoris and move your tongue from side to side as if you are sweeping a floor.
4. Vacuum. Start licking her clitoris gently with your tongue to prepare her for this strong sensation technique. Once you see that she is ready, place your mouth over her clitoris and gently suck it in and out of your mouth. Be sure to use this technique only when she is really warmed up. Avoid using this move during her orgasms as the sensation may prove too strong for her to take it.
Cunnilingus Exercises
To be able to perform for extended periods of time, there are a number of exercises that can be used to strengthen the muscles in your mouth. Here are a few tongue exercises and positions for performing cunnilingus:
- Cunnilingus Exercise 1:
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Stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, and then try to touch your nose. Once you are in this position, hold the same muscle groups still and begin moving your tongue around. Practice in sets, moving the tongue clockwise, counterclockwise, and up and down.
- Cunnilingus Exercise 2:
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With a loose jaw, point your tongue while simultaneously trying to keep your tongue in constant contact with the top and bottom your mouth. Once you are in this position, practice moving your tongue in and out of your mouth. For the more advanced student, try keeping your mouth closed and circling your tongue around inside of it, while of course, maintaining position. An extension to the advanced exercise is trying to dissolve a lifesaver held in your teeth from the inside out.
- Cunnilingus Exercise 3:
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Stick your tongue straight out of your mouth, trying to keep your tongue flat and relaxed. Slowly, while holding the position, practice curling the wide tip of the tongue upward, downward and side-to-side. Practice in five sets of ten, holding each move for 2 seconds.
- Cunnilingus Exercise 4:
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Keep your tongue relaxed and open your mouth. Move your tongue in and out of your mouth forwards and in both directions. Practice in five sets of twenty.
To be good at it you have to be an excellent reader of her body, her breathing, her movements, and what she may be telling you with words. Everything you do is for your partner in that moment and not based on a performance expectations, lessons from porn, or previous oral sex experiences.
To make your girl accepts cunnilingus, one of the most important things that you must do it to make her feel physically and mentally relaxed. You will also need to make her horny and make her want it bad from you.
Let me share with you 5 ways to persuade your girl to accept cunnilingus from you:
1. Get your woman warmed up. When it comes to cunnilingus and sex, your woman is like an oven. You cannot bake a cake unless the oven is "preheated". If your lover has not been warmed up yet, she will not be receptive in receiving cunnilingus from you.
2. Get her mentally in the mood for cunnilingus. She must be physically and mentally relaxed and comfortable, and as a result, receptive to cunnilingus. Perform some sensual massage or foot rub on her will usually do the trick. A hot bath is also a good idea to prepare her for cunnilingus.
3. Read a steamy novel together. Women are seldom turned on by something that they see, most of the time it is something mental. So by reading a steamy novel together, preferably with cunnilingus included, will get her juices flowing and ready for cunnilingus.
4. Caress her thighs. Use the tips of your tongue to stimulate her thigh, but strictly leave out her vulva. This is to let her imagine what it is going to feel like if she allows your tongue to touch her clitoris.
5. Be romantic. Romance can get a woman mentally turned on, which will result in her being receptive to cunnilingus. Take her out for a candlelight dinner, and give her some thoughtful gifts. The gifts do no need to be expensive, as long as she gets to feel the thoughts and efforts that are put into the gifts.
Lastly, explain to her that cunnilingus is the best way to intensify orgasms. Assure her that once she tries it once, she will crave for more.
Do you know that more than 81% of women regularly receive orgasms from cunnilingus, when compared to only 25% of them from traditional penetration, provided the man does it RIGHT? Find out how to perform cunnilingus the right way from the website below to avoid making embarrassing and costly mistakes:
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