The G-spot is a secondary point of stimulus. It is just inside the front wall of the vagina and feels like a round raised area of fatty tissue about the size of a dime. The G-Spot arousal usually occurs after an initial orgasm. It moves just as a woman moves and may in a slightly different spot depending on the sexual position of the female partner.
About 15% of the women who have G-spot orgasms ejaculate liquid from the Skenes glands which lay on each side of the urethra. The following is description of cunnilingus is by a heterosexual male.
Insertion of an object into the vagina or anus, (dildos, vibrators, fingers, butt plugs), is not usually necessary, but can enhance the sensations for some and significantly increase G-Spot
orgasms intensity and frequency. Not all women can have an orgasm by cunnilingus, just as all men are not able to
orgasm with
fellatio or
autofellatio.
POPULAR CULTURE
Male to Female: It is important to first convince some women that you
love cunnilingus, the aroma and flavor of their genitals. This can be
done by telling her you love it, moaning during cunnilingus, showing
her by being comfortable, with performing cunnilingus on her while
watching TV, or at other times when there is no expectation or
reciprocation. Partners may both feel less inhibited if the bathe
before oral sex as it acts as a relaxing and cleansing mechanism.
If there is ever a pungent or strong oder the female should be urged to see a doctor regarding possible vaginosis which is a symptom of excessive blood in the uterus. Many things can cause this but most common is blood vessels close too close to the surface of the skin that seep blood. The blood becomes bateria ladden and the result is a bad oder. This is a common problem and many women find them selves going from one relationship to another not understanding why men leave them. Men do not have enough education in this area and use the rational of "she has poor hygiene" as the internal excuse for breaking the relationship off.
Note: that the women can not or does not smell it her self, she can't and it would be like trying to smell your own bad breath or B.O.. You can smell your own B.O. or bad breath but it is no where near as alarming when someone else smell your B.O. or bad breath, the same goes with vaginosis.
However if a bath is not done and you have concerns about the secretions of smegma under the hood of the clitoris, the order can be taken care of by five seconds of licking or simply sensual cleaning with a soft cloth. You may hold your breath for the five seconds, as smegma has an odor, but on obvious taste. Some women have a stronger flavor or larger amount of lubricant. Relax and enjoy getting her juices all over your face. Wiping it off, being timid or lack of movement will send her a negative signal.
Technique
Another suggestion for etiquette involved inconspicuously getting a strand of pubic hair in your mouth. This can be accomplished by licking her thigh and leaving the hair there.
If your goal is to bring the woman to orgasm plan on spending five minutes to two hours depending on the average time it take her to reach orgasms. In most cases role play, fantasy or fantasy play can help shorter her time to orgasm and inhance the over all relationship. Prepare for the marathon scenario by learning to conserve the muscles in your tongue, and using a variation of pressure and types of licking. Licking with the relaxed flat position of your tongue is also pleasurable to your partner. You aren't in a race. Keep your neck supported by resting your head on the inside of her thigh as you are both on your sides. You may also switch positions and have her squat or sit above you to relieve muscle tension in your neck. You don't have to isolate your activity to the genitals in the same way as you would for a man. Women enjoy non-genital stimulus as well, so move around, lick the inside of her thighs, perineum, buttocks, anus, abdomen, etc.
Begin cunnilingus with foreplay, and gradually work your way down to the genitals. Unlike many men, women enjoy being teased by lingering at her waist, around the top of the mounds of the pubis, and down the inside of the thighs; don't feel you have to immediately proceed slowly to the clitoris. When she is ready for direct clitoral stimulus she will either tell you or signal by pressing her clitoris toward you.
You will now be able to locate the clitoris by finding the small protrusion to the front of the genital area. Many females will direct you by the body movement; however, ask her to put her finger on it if you can't locate it yourself. Next, move your tongue slowly around the vagina and into it, lick softly around the clitoris, slowing bringing the tongue closer to the protruding clitoris, increasing pressure as your tongue comes into direct contact with it. Move your tongue in a circle around the clitoris then rapidly go up and down or across it. If she backs away you will need to slow down. Women vary in the amount of pressure direct stimulus they can tolerate. For those who are extra sensitive you will need to only apply pressure to the sides of the clitoris. Alternate licking with sucking or use a combination of the tongue and lips by following the tongue with the lower lip and visa-a-versa. Some women enjoy being nibbled on in the genital area, however, avoid the clitoris.
You may want to delay orgasm as long as possible. Women respond to being built up by peaks of arousal in the same manner as a man. A woman will move as long as she is stimulated. If she becomes bored or over stimulated she'll either say something or you will notice her once protruding clitoris disappear? Many women prefer to have vaginal penetration before orgasm rather than continued cunnilingus, or both simultaneously. The woman will usually let you know at this by pulling you into position. Otherwise, you will find that her clitoris swells more at the orgasm and this is the time to suck, being careful not to use the tip of your tongue as the clitoris will be extremely sensitive at this point and for some this is true after orgasm also.
