Fantasy Play - Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated in ordinary sex. IT is the equivalent of adding a plot to a X-rated move.
Of course, fantasies such as hanging from the chandelier, cross gender experiences, and sex crimes cannot be physically acted out. However, many of these type of fantasies can be done symbolically. an example would be the cross gender fantasy where a male lover decides he wants to act out a lesbian scene. It is not only necessary for him to dress in female attire for the role, but to psychologically prepare himself. He may be put through a mock castration scene with his partner verbally reiterating that he is no longer male and describing his new female organs to him. He would be pampered, complemented, degraded, or in general treated in the manner he feels a sexy female would be under the same circumstances. Mirrors help reinforce his new role, bu only if he is in costume. Of course, a name change is often used. This same scenario could as easily turn another man off, therefore, the fantasy scene is discussed or negotiated prior to enactment.
Contrary to what most believe, it is not advisable to act out a person's favorite masturbation fantasy. This is because reality with its physical limitations can never match the diverse activity and timing possible in the mind. a person can easily come to have unrealistic expectations in regard to their favorite fantasy and will often be disappointed, or perhaps even blame their partner for a sloppy performance. People find it more advantageous to crate new fantasies that lend themselves to physical reenactment. Some of the most popular are abduction, burglary, sex slave, military games, prison, pirates, college fraternity initiations, police arrest, Indian capture, and space ships.
Pseudo-group sex orgies scene might include
bo-peep searching for her missing sheep. the sheep are symbolic and with the exception of the partner are made of a sheep drawn on a sealed paper bag, each of which has a different sex toy inside. The sex partner hides all of the bags and himself. bobo-peep then begins her search. The same type of scene is acted out with an Easter egg (sex toy) hunt. the player inevitably finds a woman in a bunny costume. Game rules vary, but usually the hunter has to find a minimum of two toys and if they don't choose to use one of them they have to replace it with two others, making a total of three. One does not have t use toys, some prefer using written sexual suggestions instead a similar fantasy includes a seduction f Santa Claus. In this fantasy sexy lingerie or toys are put into gift wrapped packages.
A sample pseudo-group sex scene, an one that is more difficult to act out, is of male who is captured by a wicked queen and taken to her dungeon to be tortured by her servants while she watches. The prisoner is blindfolded and bound (unless one changes costumes several times) to a table or bed The queen then instructs a women called the French tickler to slowly titillate every inch of the captive's body. he finally screams for release and promises to perform any type of sex the wicked queen wants. She rewards him by commanding one of the women from her harem to give him a sensual warm oil massage. as the wicked queen watches, she tells him exactly what she wants. Horrified, he refuses,. She expected this and now commands her guardian of ice to take a piece in her mouth and slowly glide it over the most sensitive areas of his body. after 10 minutes he has failed to surrender. The tyrant queen next orders her favorite slave, Marquita De Sade, to punish him until he promises to submit himself totally to her passions. Marquita is ruthless, but he still refuses to surrender. at this, the queen becomes furious and condemns him to the ultimate torture. She turns and offers the first woman who can fill a cup with his love juices their immediate freedom.
A simple but entertaining game played at parties requires everyone to anonymously write out their favorite fantasy or sexual experience on piece of paper, drop it in a box, and once every one's fantasy is in the box, they are read aloud to the group. There are many books CD's and DVDs that can help give couples idea's for a variety of fantasies. The most important thing about Fantasy Play is that the fantasy is communicated to the partner, boundaries are set and discussed before enactment.