Menage a trios – A ménage a trios is a domestic arrangement which is often confused with a 3-way erotosexual experience. These 3-ways may technically be of any sex or sexual preference. If a heterosexual couple lives in an area where prostitution is legal they may simply hire a third person. Singles often advertise in local swinger newspapers, or swinger websites like IA Members for couples interested in a 3-way and couples advertise for singles. Some prefer a regular partner whi is bi-sexual or willing to engage in sex with a third person. (A woman who feels like she is being used as a pawn or pimp for her partner’s pleasure may resent the relationship.) Unless the couple is gay, generally it is easier for the female to approach the third party. The domestic arrangement that has potential for lasting longest consists of same sex partners, followed by two bi-sexual women an a male or two men and a women, and last by one male and two heterosexual females.
One’s focus is often divided between two people and if a male comes to orgasm before the female(s), the sex play may be over, if the women are not bi-sexual. There is also risk that if one is enjoying a particular sensation, someone stroking or probing another part of the body becomes distracting. This often happens with two people who are excited about experimenting with bi-sexuality for the first time. If something goes wrong it is better for someone having a poor experiences to stop immediately; no one is obligated to stay in the group until the others are satisfied. Husbands and wives often have strong opinions about which types of sex their partner can use with the outside lover. These rules are best discussed prior to approaching the third person, and then discussed again with the third person so that their wishes may be taken into consideration by the couple as well.
Sexual positions used during 3-way sex vary according to the type of sex the people enjoy. People can be stimulated with the tongue, mouth and hands-some even use their feet to gain contact with the third person.
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